Miss Quad is telling her truth amid recent episodes of Married To Medicine where she was seemingly iced out of the group that’s been accused of “mean girl” behavior. “I see now,” said the reality star while reflecting on how her former friend was treated.
On Sunday, super producer Carlos King dropped a surprise interview with the Bravo star where they discussed her cast mates and a contentious trip to Napa Valley.
My EXCLUSIVE chat with Quad on being sent HOME is available NOW! Link ???????? #Married2med #RealitywiththeKing pic.twitter.com/pvYT4L2x5e
— Carlos King (@thecarlosking_) December 18, 2023
Quad Was Kicked Off A Married To Medicine Trip To Napa Valley
On the most recent episodes of #M2M, the ladies were seen confronting Quad over past statements she made about the group while questioning her commitment to the friendship circle.
The ladies also alleged that Quad often goes M.I.A. and refuses to take accountability for her actions, something she countered that she tried to do with a failed “resurrection” co-orchestrated by Married To Medicine newbie Phaedra Parks.
During the fiasco at a funeral home, Quad made a dramatic entrance by rising out of a casket and agreeing to let bygones be bygones within the group, only for her efforts to fall apart amid a back-and-forth with co-star Toya Bush-Harris.
Now in front of not just Toya, but her “sister” Dr. Heavenly Kimes, Dr. Jackie Walters, Dr. Simone Whitmore, (her husband’s new wife) Lateasha “Sweet Tea” Lunceford, Dr. Alicia, and Phaedra Parks, Quad admitted that her connection the group was strained.
“There was not a safe space for me,” said Quad explaining why she retreated from the ladies and was “emotionally restrained.”
“Well then what I have to ask is, ‘What has changed?’” asked Dr. Simone. “Why continue hanging around that group?”
“I want to change that,” said Quad. “I want to just be good to y’all and y’all be good to me. Right now at this moment I don’t have an emotion connection” she added.
Things then spiraled from there as Dr. Heavenly Kimes entered the chat.
Dr. Heavenly Kimes Outed Phaedra Parks For Quad Comments, Accused Quad Of Being A “User” Before She Was Booted From The Trip
During the tense convo, Heavenly outed Phaedra, who was seemingly Quad’s good girlfriend, for saying that she was “definitely not” going to bring Quad on the trip to Napa.
She also said that the attorney shadily changed her flight so she wouldn’t have to travel with her, which Phaedra admitted to.
“I was not gonna keep inviting you to stuff if you were gonna bring that energy here,” said the #RHOA alum matter of factly.
Heavenly then accused Quad of being a “user.”
“You use people Quad,” said the dentist. “You didn’t call me at all until she said she wasn’t gonna bring you on the trip. I need you to own that you said these things—my point is you a user,” she added.
Of course I’ve reached out!…. she doesn’t respond until. She needs me! I do feel bad for her. But damn. She did this
— Dr. Heavenly (@Dr_Heavenly) December 18, 2023
First off I was never going to be out of the group … if I needed. My job honestly I would act like it. I do feel really bad for Quad but honestly she did this to herself!
— Dr. Heavenly (@Dr_Heavenly) December 18, 2023
Elsewhere in the convo she was told that she was coming off as “disingenuous” and “opportunistic” amid hints that she disappeared from the group until cameras started rolling.
“How do we trust the words that coming out of your moth when they’re not backed by their actions?” asked Toya. “You can’t talk about my husband and then you turned around and said we would rob the neighborhood. My family and me were going through torture, ” she added.
“Well, have been in the same boat, this has been not a cake walk for me,” replied Quad.
“Quad, you playing the victim,” countered Heavenly. “You not owning s***.”
Ultimately the ladies came to a unanimous decision that Quad was no longer welcome on the trip.
“We have decided that none of us have an emotional connection with you,” said Dr. Simone to Quad. “It’s just not gonna work. We’re gonna ask you to leave this trip.”
“Well, wasn’t expecting that, I really hate that this is where we are,” responded the reality star looking crestfallen.” I was hoping I would get the opportunity to show you all idfferently, it hurst me that we are what we are.”
Now Quad’s opening up about her true feelings about the messy moment and even reflecting on a similar situation that happened on the show with her ex-friend, Mariah Huq.
Hit the flip for that.
On Carlos King’s Reality With The King podcast, Quad told the producer that she felt “ambushed” when she was ostracized by the group.
“It was almost like someone told them go for Quad, isolate her, she’s the target,” said Quad. “I was made a mockery of, it was like nobody wanted to room with me. All of this was made to make me feel left out or unwanted. That was the beginning of ‘Oh, I see what this is.’”
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“It’s tough,” she added. “It was a compete ambush. At every single turn, they shut me down. It’s like, if I wasn’t saying what they wanted me to say, then they didn’t want to hear it. It was very disheartening. It was almost like everyone knew what was about to happen, everyone was in on it, except me,” she added.
She also added that she understood what her ex-friend Mariah Huq, whom she admitted to missing having fun with, experienced when she was previously iced out of the group, something that #M2M watchers have brought up in tweets.
Quad is getting iced out the same way Mariah was and if I remember correctly, she was part of the reason they pushed Mariah out! You see those tables…. #Married2Med #MarriedToMed #Married2Medicine #M2M #MarriedToMedicine pic.twitter.com/MVIHxiIwce
— ♉️ alien superstar ???????? (@RobynDMarley_) December 11, 2023
Shout out to @TheKingOfShade1 for the receipts!!!! Watch until the end because the statements from Quad did not age well. She was hyped when they did to Mariah what they are now doing to her. Oh Well. ???? #Married2Medicine #Married2Med pic.twitter.com/sYVZs113JE
— HowYSeeItPodcast (@HowYSeeIt) December 11, 2023
Mariah watching the sneaky group turn on Quad
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the same way they & Quad turned on Mariah. #Married2med pic.twitter.com/5nEUehKokn— Lola Always (@LolaXAlways) December 18, 2023
“I felt like, I see now,” said Quad.
Quad understands how Mariah was feeling when she got iced out #Married2Med #Realitywiththeking pic.twitter.com/n7Pg3BB7Zh
— Porsha (@PorshaStan2) December 18, 2023
She went on to deny that she played a part in Mariah’s ousting from the group.
Quad & Mariah were great together #Married2Med pic.twitter.com/sZs0RzHZJC
— Porsha (@PorshaStan2) December 18, 2023
Elsewhere in the interview, Quad also confirmed that she played a part in Phaedra Parks joining the show, despite the attorney now dissing her amongst the ladies.
“The energy between Phaedra and I had always been good, she’s always been really cool,” said Quad. “Phaedra and I have been cool for a long time and actually that connection did from come through my ex-husband. I thought it was a a great idea [to have her join] the cast. I was asked to participate in her process of coming on board. I wanted to see her back on television.”
She added that she felt confused by the attorney’s actions.
“The table scene was horrible across the board,” said Quad while getting emotional. “To learn that she had changed her airline ticket–I’m like that’s not what you told me.”
Quad also told Carlos that Phaedra lied and said she was shopping at a drugstore to avoid her.
“That was devastating. I didn’t understand why she would do that.”
Watch Quad on Reality With The King below.