- In a powerful sermon that left no room for subtlety, Pastor Sam Adeyemi passionately took on the societal obsession with manhood enlargement, a trend he views as a symptom of deeper insecurities and misplaced priorities.
- With unflinching conviction, he told his congregation that no matter the size, it won’t enhance true effectiveness or satisfy what’s missing within.
Pastor Sam Adeyemi, senior pastor of Daystar Christian Center, recently took the pulpit by storm with advice to men worried about their “small manhood,” delivering a message that shook up social media and resonated deeply with many.
Speaking with candor and conviction, during recent sermon, he challenged the widely held belief that a man’s worth or power is tied to physical size, calling it a shallow pursuit that ultimately leads nowhere.
Drawing from his own experiences in secondary school, Adeyemi shared an anecdote that underscored the absurdity of body comparisons.
He recounted how young men, driven by societal expectations and peer pressure, often felt insecure over things beyond their control—chasing standards that have nothing to do with true masculinity.
Sam Adeyemi urged men to redirect this energy toward building their inner strength, self-acceptance, and cultivating relationships that add real meaning to their lives.
His words;
“One of the major pressures we have is body image problems. It’s terrible, this comparing of your body with mine. Setting standards on what the body should look like and then you find out you fell short. It is so bad
“I went to an all-boys secondary school. I still remember the day some of my classmates, they went somewhere and by the time they came back, we now found out what they went to do. They went with a ruler to go measure their private parts and to compare.
“Nothing destroys self-image more than that. It is nonsense. If you are a young guy, let me encourage you because it is all over the internet now. Are they not there? Everywhere you look, you will see either medicine or one Chinese method of elongating your…
“It is a lie, it is not the length that matters but the effectiveness, the skills and love for the other person. So for God’s sake wait till you get married.
“If it is only one person you are doing it with, there will be no need comparing all over the place. Do not let them kill you.”
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